Girls have always been puzzles for men. Girls have up to 50 different gestures with which they flirt with men, demonstrating their sympathy and interest. What are the secret signals of the body language of flirting girls?
1.1 Pay attention to her gaze. The woman you are interested in will not only carefully examine you, but also allow you to notice it! Repeated eye contact from the other end of the room is a sure sign that a woman invites you to come up to her and say hello (especially if her looks are accompanied by a smile).
1.2 Watch her face. When a woman is interested, her face becomes more lively. Pay attention to her eyebrows, lips and eyes - they will give you information about how the girl will respond to what you say. Pay particular attention to the following signs:
Raised eyebrows. This sign can be used in many different situations, but more often it is a good signal. When the raised eyebrows are accompanied by a smile and a nod, it means that the girl agrees with what you are saying - even if the point is that it is you who is saying it. Women also raise eyebrows after eye contact in order to show that they like what they see.
Moving lips. If a girl bites her lips when she listens or thinks, this means that she is trying to draw attention to her lips, and therefore, most likely, she is interested in you. In addition, pay attention to whether the girl licks her lips. This is not only an unconscious way to draw attention to the lips - when a girl is excited or excited, her mouth is dry.
Dilated pupils. In both men and women, dilated pupils indicate that a person has an interest in the interlocutor. This is especially true if you are in a bright room (in dark conditions, the pupils dilate naturally).
Too mobile eyelids. If a girl claps her eyelashes, she definitely flirts. Although this movement is a common cliche, it did not come from scratch. If a woman is interested in you, she will blink more often than usual.
Dilated nostrils. When a woman is excited or excited, her nostrils will swell. This is an involuntary response to excitement, and, like dilated pupils, it is a genuine sign of interest.
1.3 Pay attention to where the girl is in relation to you. Interested person will try to be closer to you. If you are sitting at a table, she can put her head on one or both hands to get closer to you.
Watch out for crossed arms. If a girl sits on a chair with her arms crossed, there is a possibility that she is bored or uninterested. Try to regain her interest by starting a lively conversation about her and her life. If all else fails, you will have to look for another girl.
On the other hand, if a girl touches your hand and immediately removes her back, pressing it to the chest area, this reflects her interest.
1.4 Pay attention to how the girl touches her hair. Gentle, neat movements, such as carefree twisting of a strand around a finger or passing fingers through hair, are all signs of interest. Quick and sudden movements are a manifestation of embarrassment or impatience, especially if complemented by a wandering gaze.
Rapid abrupt movements do not mean that the situation is hopeless. If you push too hard, take a step back. Be careful not to dominate the conversation and not to compliment too much.
1.5 Pay attention to her fingers. When a woman is interested, she caresses the erogenous zones of her body with her fingers, twirls jewelry or plays with her glass.
Weasel of erogenous zones. If a woman often touches her lips, neck or collarbones, it means that she sends you a signal that she wants you. Most often, this is an unconscious way to draw your attention to these places in order to remind you that she is sexy.
Spinning in the hands of jewelry. When a woman is next to an interesting man, her heart begins to beat faster, she experiences excitement and is nervous. As a way to get rid of this tension, a woman can twist her rings, play with earrings or pull off beads. She can also swing her leg or foot to get rid of excess energy.
A game with different items. If a woman strokes the leg of a glass or runs her fingers along the rim of a glass of water, it means that she is trying to attract your attention. If the movements are slow and controlled, most likely the girl is interested in you. However, if she taps a glass or purses her lips, it is likely that she wants to leave as soon as possible.
1.6 Pay attention to her legs. More often than not, girls with an interest cross their legs. This is an exceptionally good sign if the foot is pointing in your direction. She can also iron her lower thigh or smooth her pants (by doing this before, or by doing it at the same time) to keep your attention on her legs.
2. During the meeting
2.1 Pay attention to physical contact. Each person has an intimate space - 50 cm in all directions. If a girl invades this space or even finds a reason to touch you, we can be sure that she is interested in you. Be prepared for the “checks” that she can arrange: come closer to you to let someone pass, touch your hand as a gesture of sympathy when you are sad, or put your hand on your knee to emphasize your wit - these are all quick ways to upset your personal distance to see how you react to it.
If the girl is interesting to you, answer her with small "checks" on your part. So the girl will understand that you are also interested, and this will open the door to longer touches.
2.2 Do not forget about eye contact. To show you that she considers you the most interesting person in the room, the woman will look you in the eye. If you just met, she can only be delayed for a couple of seconds longer than usual. However, if you know each other well, a girl may be comfortable enough to look deeply into your eyes.
Two are needed for this game. A girl cannot look you in the eye for a long time if you look away. If you are uncomfortable with her “steps toward rapprochement,” do not be afraid to immediately look away. However, if you are interested in a girl, extend eye contact for a few seconds before looking away (or letting her do it).
2.3 Pay attention to her laughter. Note how often she smiles or laughs in your presence when compared to other people. More often than not, it is not easy for women who are interested in you to stop laughing in your presence. This can happen in a conversation with you (during which a girl can look you in the eye a lot, smile, laugh even at the slightest joke) or just in a situation when you and the girl are in the same room. Pay attention also to loud speech and noisy behavior when a girl communicates with someone else - this is a clear sign of a desire to be noticed by you.
2.4 Pay attention to “cute” gestures. There are several gestures with which a woman can strengthen your desire to wrap her in a hug. The most important of these is a shrug. Open, upturned palms are also a reliable sign that a girl is interested in you.
If a girl, sitting on a chair, leans forward and turns slightly towards you, she shows her forms and wants you to appreciate them.
If she moves her hand along your back and barely glides along the top of your buttocks, then her interest in you is incredibly strong.
2.5 Rate her heartbeat. If you are close enough for a hug, lay your head on her chest. If her heart beats all speed records, then the girl is interested in you. If you are not close enough for a hug, check her heart rate on her wrist. Grab her hand lightly and place a finger on her wrist. This technique is not easy to master, but if you find an accelerated heartbeat, it will be more than a reliable sign that the girl has feelings for you.
You can also appreciate her heartbeat by observing her breathing. It is no less difficult (if not more) than to feel the pulse, but does not require a long touch. If you're near a movie theater, try moving in easily. If a girl is breathing very fast, it is likely that she is interested in you. If she tries to hold her breath, it is possible that she is trying to hide his rapidity.
2.6 Observe whether the girl mirrors your movements. It often happens that a person who is interested in you unconsciously mirrors your movements. This shows that the two of you are “on the same wavelength,” which means that the intimacy between you can increase. That's why dancing is considered an intimate or sexual activity - they make you mirror each other's movements!
If a girl evaluates you with a top-down look, without moving her head, and then smiles, this means that she likes what she sees. With her smile, a girl can tacitly acknowledge the fact that she likes you.
Tilting the head to the side is the primary indicator of interest, girls often do this during a conversation to show their involvement and agreement with you, and also to open their neck, thereby showing you that she is comfortable with you.
You can also use the clock trick. Take a quick look at the watch, and then return your eyes to the girl (unless you looked at her out of the corner of your eye). For this, any item is suitable. If the girl is looking where you just looked, then she was watching you. But keep in mind: the girl could decide that you saw something dangerous or interesting, and want to find out what it was.
Pay attention to facial muscle tension. It is directly proportional to sympathy. The most noticeable places are around the lips, chin, forehead.
Girls, not all guys will reciprocate and joy to your flirtation. You recognize such a guy by his reaction: you laugh at his joke or flirt with him, and in response to this, he looks at you strangely or in perplexity. Guys, don't be afraid to say “thank you, but no” to the girl who is flirting with you. Thus, she will not waste time on you and will be able to start flirting with someone else.
If a girl looks into space, smiles and looks at you, then she thinks she is flirting with you.
If a girl takes out lip balm and spends more time than necessary to smear her lips, and at the same time constantly looks at you, then she flirts.
Not all women have the same body language!
Do not make hasty conclusions: if a gesture seemed sexy to you, this does not mean that the girl wants you. If you go on a rapprochement, and the girl does not want this, it is unlikely that everything will end well.
Do not look at the décolleté zone, even if the girl has put on a rather open outfit. For some men, looks in the neckline have become a bad habit, but if the girl catches your gaze, she will almost certainly offend her (especially on the first date).
Provoking factors and diseases
The viscosity in the mouth can be of a different nature:
In the first case, the most common cause of viscosity in the mouth is a hangover, or a stuffy nose and breathing problems. Permanent astringency is a frequent companion of smokers, it also appears with hormonal fluctuations in the body or malnutrition. Short-term viscosity occurs periodically and is usually caused by dry air or physical exertion, when the fluid is actively removed through sweat. People suffering from snoring often wake up with a feeling of dryness.
The reasons why you constantly knit in your mouth are more diverse:
- Prolonged intoxication of the body . In addition to viscosity and astringency, a person will suffer from headache, nausea and feel the bitter taste of bile in his mouth.
- Dehydration . When the water balance is disturbed, it is noticeable by the condition of the dried up mucous membranes. A sufficient amount of saliva is not produced in the oral cavity, the risk of developing bacteria increases.
- Drug abuse .
- Smoking or chewing tobacco .
- Chronic diseases, in particular hypertension and diabetes . Often thirst is added to astringency.
- Anemia . It may occur against the background of a decrease in immunity, when taking certain medications and in the presence of serious diseases.
- Diarrhea . Long-term diarrhea quickly leads to dehydration, which is why it knits the tongue and mucous membranes.
- . Most often occurs in old age.
- HIV .
- Different forms of neuritis .
Periodic astringent taste can be disturbing due to the consumption of certain fruits, for example, persimmons or unripe apples often knit here. This is due to the high content of tannic acid in the fruits, and it causes an unpleasant sensation on the tongue and mucous membranes.
In addition to food, there are several reasons why periodically knit in the mouth:
- Taking potent drugs : painkillers, antidepressants and tranquilizers.
- Active physical activity . During movement, the body loses water through sweat, which leads to slight dehydration. To get rid of discomfort, it is enough just to drink enough water every day - about 2 liters.
- Menopause . During hormonal changes in the body, women can periodically feel astringent astringent sensations.
- Radiation therapy . The work of the salivary glands can be impaired if radiation therapy was performed in the head or neck. The same effect may occur due to chemotherapy.
In a healthy person, viscosity is easily removed if you drink water or brush your teeth, if these symptoms do not go away for a long time, and saliva has an unusual taste, this is an occasion to consult a doctor.
Hand protection is one of the few gestures of an adult and has the same meaning as a child’s gesture. The hand covers the mouth and the thumb is pressed to the cheek, while the brain at the subconscious level sends signals to restrain the spoken words. Sometimes it can be only a few fingers at the mouth or even a fist, but the meaning of the gesture remains the same. The gesture “protecting the mouth with the hand” should be distinguished from evaluative gestures, which will be discussed later in this chapter. Some people try to pretend to cough in order to disguise this gesture. Humphrey Bogart, when he had to play the role of a gangster or a criminal, often used this technique when discussing his criminal intentions with other gangsters or during interrogation in order to emphasize the lack of sincerity of his character using non-verbal means.
Touching the Nose
In essence, touching the nose is a subtle, disguised version of the previous gesture. It can be expressed in several light touches to the dimple under the nose, or be expressed in one quick, almost imperceptible touch. Some women make this gesture very carefully so as not to grease the lipstick and not damage the makeup. One of the explanations of the nature of this gesture is that when bad thoughts penetrate the consciousness, the subconscious mind tells the hand to cover its mouth, but at the very last moment, out of a desire to mask this gesture, the hand pulls away from the mouth, and it turns out
Rubbing the Century
A wise monkey says, “I see no sin,” closing his eyes. This gesture is caused by the desire in the brain to hide from deception, suspicion or the lies that it encounters, or the desire to avoid looking into the eyes of the person to whom it is telling a lie. Men usually rub their eyelids in a very energetic way, and if the lie is very serious, they turn their eyes away, usually to the floor. Women very delicately make this movement, swiping a finger under the eye. This can be caused by two reasons: because of their upbringing, they are not familiar with rude gestures, the caution of movements is explained by the presence of makeup on the eyelids. Looking away, they look at the ceiling. Known expression "Lying through the teeth." This expression refers to a complex of gestures, consisting of gritted teeth and a tight smile, rubbing the eyelid with a finger and looking away to the side. Film actors use this complex gesture to portray the insincerity of their heroes, but in ordinary life this gesture is rare.
Scratching and Rubbing the Ear
In fact, this gesture is caused by the listener's desire to isolate himself from the words, putting his hand near or above the ear. This gesture is an adult advanced modification of the gesture of a young child when he plugs his ears so as not to listen to the reproaches of his parents. Other options for touching your ear include rubbing your auricle, drilling in your ear (with your fingertip), sipping your earlobe, or bending your ear in an attempt to cover your auditory opening. This last gesture indicates that the person has heard enough and wants to speak out.
В ходе исследования жестов людей, сопровождающих их ложь, Десмонд Моррис заметил, что ложь вызывает зудящее ощущение в нежных мышечных тканях лица и шеи, и требуется почесывание, чтобы успокоить эти ощущения. This seems to be an acceptable explanation for why some people pull off their collars when they lie and suspect that their fraud has been uncovered. It also appears that the cheater has droplets of sweat on his neck when he feels that you suspected a fraud. This gesture is also used when a person is angry or upset, while he pulls the collar from his neck to cool her with fresh air. When you see a person making this gesture, you can ask him: “Could you repeat this, sir?” or "Could you clarify this point, sir?" And this will make the trickster refuse to continue his tricky game.
Fingers in mouth
Morris gives this explanation for this gesture: a person puts his fingers in his mouth in a state of intense oppression. This is an unconscious attempt by a person to return to that safe, cloudless time in infancy when the baby was sucking his mother’s breasts. A small child sucks a finger, and as for an adult, in addition to a finger, he puts objects such as cigarettes, pipes, pens and the like into his mouth. If the gestures associated with covering the mouth with a hand indicate deception, the fingers in the mouth indicate an internal need for approval and support. Therefore, when this gesture appears, it is necessary to support the person or assure him of guarantees.
When the index finger is directed vertically to the temple, and the thumb supports the chin, this indicates that he has negative thoughts. the listener is negative or critical of the lecturer or the subject of his message. Often, the index finger can rub or pull on the eyelid as negative thoughts thicken. The longer a person keeps these gestures, the longer his critical attitude will remain. This gesture is a signal that the speaker urgently needs to do something, or try to captivate the listener with the content of his message, or round out his speech. A simple way is to give him something to support and thereby change his posture. The gesture of critical evaluation is often confused with a signal of interest, but with a critical attitude there will definitely be a support of the chin with the thumb.
To hold a tree branch in hands is a change in business. If the branch is palm - to joy, if the laurel - you will find success and glory in art.
To hold an eagle owl in your hand - in reality you will have to accept and entertain a person who is extremely boring and does not understand humor. Keeping a horse under a bridle in a dream - danger lies in wait for you. If in a dream you are holding a snake in your hands, then you will be able to find a way to curb the one who is trying to blackmail you. If a young girl in a dream holds a cat or a kitten in her arms, then in reality she will be involved in some unseemly affairs.
To hold a banner in hands is to occupy a false position in society. Keeping your horoscope, compiled by a familiar astrologer, portends unexpected changes in affairs and a long trip, which will be accompanied by meetings with famous people.
Holding some food in your hands and dropping it means that your lover will shift his attention to another, and you will regret your unreasonable behavior. Keeping an icicle means getting sick for no apparent reason.
If a young girl sees that she is holding someone on her lap, it means that in reality she will undergo a sharp condemnation. If she holds a cross in her hands, this predicts that she will observe modesty and benevolence in behavior, which will win the love of others and will cause a favor of fate.
Keeping a thermometer under your arm means that you are experiencing family turmoil and are not satisfied with your work.
Keep a pan on fire in a dream - portends a verbal skirmish that develops into a household scandal. Holding onto the railing means you will try to use the desperate opportunity to keep a person passionately. Seeing wooden utensils in a dream - you will have the opportunity to make some savings for a rainy day.
Wooden shoes - thanks to frugality, you will achieve wealth. Wooden furniture, seen in a dream, portends that in your house for some time an atmosphere of mutual discontent and misunderstanding will be established.
Wooden products mean that some bore annoys you and you don’t know how to get rid of it. Wooden details mean that your intentions will be criticized and will be reviewed. Wooden crutches or dentures instead of legs - you have to go on the road. Drinking wooden oil is a disease of one of your loved ones.
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In this article we will talk about the most important.
Pay attention to her gaze. The woman you are interested in will not only carefully examine you, but also allow you to notice it! Repeated eye contact from the other end of the room is a sure sign that a woman invites you to come up to her and say hello (especially if her looks are accompanied by a smile).
Watch her face. When a woman is interested, her face becomes more lively. Pay attention to her eyebrows, lips and eyes - they will give you information about how the girl will respond to what you say. Pay particular attention to the following signs:
Pay attention to where the girl is in relation to you. Interested person will try to be closer to you. If you are sitting at a table, she can put her head on one or both hands to get closer to you.
- Watch out for crossed arms. If a girl sits on a chair with her arms crossed, there is a possibility that she is bored or uninterested. Try to regain her interest by starting a lively conversation about her and her life. If all else fails, you will have to look for another girl.
- On the other hand, if a girl touches your hand and immediately removes her back, pressing it to the chest area, this reflects her interest.
Pay attention to how the girl touches her hair. Gentle, neat movements, such as carefree twisting of a strand around a finger or passing fingers through hair, are all signs of interest. Quick and sudden movements are a manifestation of embarrassment or impatience, especially if complemented by a wandering gaze.
- Rapid abrupt movements do not mean that the situation is hopeless. If you push too hard, take a step back. Be careful not to dominate the conversation and not to compliment too much. If in doubt, read wikiHow articles on how to flirt to learn how to turn the conversation in the right direction.
Pay attention to her fingers. When a woman is interested, she caresses the erogenous zones of her body with her fingers, twirls jewelry or plays with her glass.
Pay attention to her legs. More often than not, girls with an interest cross their legs. This is an exceptionally good sign if the foot is pointing in your direction. She can also iron her lower thigh or smooth her pants (by doing this before, or by doing it at the same time) to keep your attention on her legs.
- Pay attention to facial muscle tension. It is directly proportional to sympathy. The most noticeable places are around the lips, chin, forehead.
- Girls, not all guys will reciprocate and joy to your flirtation. You recognize such a guy by his reaction: you laugh at his joke or flirt with him, and in response to this, he looks at you strangely or in perplexity. Guys, don’t be afraid to say “thank you, but no” to the girl who is flirting with you. Thus, she will not waste time on you and will be able to start flirting with someone else.
- If a girl looks into space, smiles and looks at you, then she thinks she is flirting with you.
- If a girl takes out lip balm and spends more time than necessary to smear her lips, and at the same time constantly looks at you, then she flirts.
- Showing their interest, girls often transfer eyes from eyes to lips and then back. This indicates a desire to kiss a man.
- The girl makes most of the gestures unconsciously. Eye contact and a smile are deliberate actions, while copying most often occurs involuntarily.
- If a girl examines you from head to toe, without moving her head, and then smiles, then she clearly hints that she likes you.
- Tilting the head to the side is the primary indicator of interest, girls often do this during a conversation to show their involvement and agreement with you, and also to open their neck, thereby showing you that she is comfortable with you.
- You can also use the clock trick. Take a quick look at the watch, and then return your eyes to the girl (unless you looked at her out of the corner of your eye). For this, any item is suitable. If the girl is looking where you just looked, then she was watching you. But keep in mind: perhaps the girl decided that you saw something dangerous or interesting, and wanted to find out what it was.
- If her friends are discussing you while you are not talking to them, most likely she likes you, because she is discussing you with them.
- Not all women have the same body language!
- Do not look at the décolleté zone, even if the girl has put on a rather open outfit. For some men, looks in the neckline have become a bad habit, but if the girl catches your eye, it will almost certainly offend her (especially on the first date).
- Consider who is in front of you. If she is not free, perhaps she always behaves this way, or is looking for an affair. In the second case, it will not lead to anything good, except for troubles.
- Do not make hasty conclusions: if a gesture seemed sexy to you, this does not mean that the girl wants you. If you go on a rapprochement, and the girl does not want this, it is unlikely that everything will end well.
- Not every unconscious gesture says that she is ready to go to bed with you. Such gestures indicate interest, and sexual behavior is a natural way to attract a male.
Viscosity and astringency in the mouth in the morning at least once in a lifetime was with everyone. Normally, this unpleasant sensation passes after. If in the mouth it knits during the day or appears, this is an occasion to think about health, since such sensations can be a symptom of serious problems in the body.
The condition can tell a lot about human health. The appearance of astringent discomfort, dryness and indicates that the digestive tract is broken. appears as a result of dehydration, which can indicate severe poisoning or illness. and causes unpleasant astringent sensations.
In addition to a feeling of tightness and dryness of the mucous membranes with viscosity in the mouth, the following symptoms are observed:
- , because of which cracks often appear,
- dry and rough tongue,
- sore throat and hoarseness in the morning,
- difficulty swallowing.
With some diseases, burning and itching are felt in the mouth. General symptoms may be accompanied by dizziness and nausea in case of poisoning.
Since the astringent taste in the oral cavity can be a symptom of a variety of diseases, the exact cause should be found out from the doctor. To establish what caused dryness, you will need to undergo the following examinations:
- hormone tests,
- ultrasound examination of the abdominal organs,
- MRI of the head,
- MRI of the neck,
- tests for vitamins and minerals,
- endoscopy of the stomach
- tests for the presence of fungal and bacterial infections,
- research on tumor markers.
After the cause is identified, the doctor will prescribe treatment.
How to get rid of the problem yourself
Dryness, astringency and unpleasant astringent sensations in the mouth can be removed without medical intervention, if this symptom is not caused by the disease, and the causes are known. You can get rid of discomfort in the following ways:
- Drink more water . Due to a lack of fluid, dehydration occurs, which leads to dry mucous membranes. It is best to drink plain water rather than tea or juice.
- Maintain room humidity . If the air around is too dry, this can also lead to viscosity in the mouth. To increase humidity, you can periodically spray water from the spray gun or put water containers in the room.
- Eat less salt . Heavily salty foods can cause a feeling of dryness, so it is advisable to exclude them from the diet.
- To refuse from bad habits . Smoking and alcohol do not contribute to the normal maintenance of water balance in the body.
Humidity can be maintained with a humidifier.
To improve salivation, you can suck sugar-free candies, drink lemon water or use special sprays. It is also necessary to periodically undergo a preventive examination of the oral cavity at the dentist.
When urgently needed to see a doctor
Do not worry, if it is tart in the mouth due to eaten persimmons or after active physical exertion, but if the flavor is also added to the viscosity, then the cause can be a serious illness:
- . It is characteristic of infectious diseases of the throat or oral cavity.
- . A sign of liver or pancreas disease. Also, this taste can indicate a violation of carbohydrate metabolism in the body.
- . A sure sign of many diseases of the gastrointestinal tract is ulcers or gastritis. An unpleasant aftertaste may also appear due to problems with the gallbladder. In some cases, bitterness in the mouth appears during the oxidation of the metal from which it is made.
- . A sure sign of heartburn. Also, this symptom, along with viscosity in the mouth, appears with diseases of the teeth and gums.
- Flavor of feces or hydrogen sulfide . It appears with diseases of the stomach, dysbiosis and caries.
In addition to the appearance of a foreign taste, the reason for visiting a doctor is the appearance of blood.
If unpleasant symptoms appear, consult a physician. After the examination, the therapist can refer to narrow-profile specialists - a dentist, neurologist or gastroenterologist. After identifying the diagnosis, the specialist prescribes the necessary treatment aimed at eliminating the cause of the discomfort. If taking drugs has led to dryness, you need to consult a specialist so that he picks up another medicine.
In case of dental diseases, surgery may be required. If the viscosity in the mouth is caused by gastrointestinal diseases, then in addition to the main treatment, a special diet will be required. Recommendations regarding diet should be given only by a specialist.
In addition to treating the underlying disease, you should take care of maintaining normal saliva levels. This can be achieved with sweets and sugar-free chewing gum, drinking enough water and not eating too salty foods.
A timely visit to the doctor will help to detect hidden diseases and cure them. If this is not done, constant dryness in the oral cavity can provoke the growth of bacteria or, leading to. Violation of the salivary glands also reduces the immunity of the mucosa, which becomes vulnerable to pathogenic microflora. This leads to inflammatory processes.
How women speak body language
A woman without puzzles and hints - almost like a cupcake without raisins. The very nature of any girl or lady requires a close interweaving of words with semi-perceptible movements, allegories, and a change of pose. Among themselves, the fair sex easily recognizes the secret language, but for men it is more difficult.
And a misunderstanding, the complete "stupidity" of the interlocutor, often lead a woman literally to frenzy. Psychologists have given this behavior the exact name of secret female signals. Ladies successfully use and improve their weapons, the female body language and gestures, often using it as a means of seduction. It includes:
- obvious manifestations of coquetry,
- the elusive sway of the hips when walking,
- shoulder movements
- licking the lips with the tip of the tongue,
- shaking hair or straightening hairstyles,
- stroking touches to the glass
- unbuttoning buttons on a blouse,
- shooting by eyes.
Any girl immediately launches all these tricks when she sees a handsome man from her point of view, setting herself the goal of luring him online.
Important. The shine of the eyes, the change in posture (straightening and even arching of the back), a sudden look in the eyes clearly indicate the lady's interest in the vis-a-vis. Moreover, she checks it.
Clear examples of a girl’s sexuality can be shown: exposing her neck (removing a scarf, opening her coat collar), fingering the earrings in her ear with her fingers, twisting a strand of hair onto her finger or stroking herself on the head, and a sudden turn of the arm to show the inside of the wrist.
The primary signs of interest in the stronger sex are a smile and a direct look into the eyes. Further, if the girl turned to the interlocutor, as if she had "forgotten" about all her affairs, she was not distracted by external stimuli and listened carefully to him, which means she liked him very much. As if by chance a half-open mouth, an expansion of the pupils, a slight blush playing on the cheeks indicate that the lady is in a state of excitement.
In general, an arsenal of tricks and tricks, the body language and gestures of a girl in love, there are many ways to attract attention. Это и подрагивание ресниц, и как бы случайное прикосновение к руке спутника, а также явные попытки: просьба починить ноутбук, отремонтировать кран или вкрутить перегоревшую лампочку.And often a man who has succumbed to these provocations wonders: why did they turn to me? Yes, because the girl liked him, and she, in turn, wants to please him, but she does it in her own way, in a feminine way.
Men and women. Reason for misunderstanding
It is not in vain that many scientific volumes and research have been devoted to the difference in the psychology of sexes. Men and women really have different perceptions of the world, their place in it and how to communicate with others. They are dissimilar in the manifestation of sympathy. It is no secret that not every person will be able to openly declare his feelings or experiences. This also concerns the personal sphere, which is why it is sometimes difficult to recognize the body language and gestures of a woman.
As is generally believed, a man, in most cases, relies on his physical strength, he demonstrates it to other males, while she "brags" to her fans. A woman’s weapon is her weakness. Ladies resort to it, trying to play on the instinct of a man to defend and win. Examples will help clarify the situation.
The young man, trying to attract attention to himself, is somewhat similar to a peacock: he straightens his shoulders, pulls in his stomach, as if he is getting taller and more confident. Eyes are sparkling, there is no limit to eloquence, funny stories and jokes flow like from a cornucopia. Sometimes a man runs the thumbs of both hands behind his belt, laying his palms outside. So he makes it clear that he is completely confident in himself. Posture is proud, the turn of the head is magnificent. It remains only to perform the wedding dance.
A woman, on the contrary, if she wants to please her, as if she is becoming completely defenseless and helpless. It may suddenly “shoot” from under the lowered eyelashes, but, having caught a reciprocal look, suddenly fade away and lower its eyes. The lady will try to touch the interlocutor’s hand, straighten her hair, pull the hem of her skirt, or play with her jewelry (earring, bracelet). Surely swaying hips when walking, increased smoothness of gait, almost imperceptible movements (touches) in the chest area, faces, thoughtful stroking of objects (glasses, pencils, cases of glasses) under the arm will certainly be launched.
Attention. In urgent cases, if the "stupid" man does not want to react in any way to the hints of the lady, the woman’s body language, she can venture on obvious moves aimed at rapprochement: for example, openly cross her legs or unfasten the upper button on her blouse.
Psychology of female gestures
How to understand a girl’s body language is debated for hours, if not years. It is important to realize that often beautiful ladies are capable of taking the most desperate steps in order to attract the attention of a young man they like. A man is by nature more pragmatic, used to act, make decisions, win, in the end. He really does not know how to understand the body language of a girl. Therefore, subtle hints to him, most often, are simply inaccessible.
A woman lives in a world of emotions, fantasies, she can hardly distinguish between the real world, with its harsh prose, and the area of her own perceptions. At the same time, the lady is well aware of the power of her charms, knows what she is strong in, and is ready for almost anything to get what she wants.
Psychologically, a woman, trying to attract a man, tries to pretend to be inept, awkward, because the actress constantly lives inside her. Hence these dramatic gestures, waved hands, a look from under the eyelashes, straightening clothes and hairstyles, “unnecessary” and random movements of objects from place to place. Sudden pauses, changes in timbre, licking lips and other intricacies of the intrigue will not hinder.
All of the above forms a complex, image-rich body language of a woman, in which every little thing is carefully thought out and aimed at arranging snares. A naive man believes that it is he who is gaining the companion's position and she, unable to resist the irresistible charm, surrenders to the mercy of the winner.
Accidents are unacceptable in a woman’s behavior: each movement is carefully planned and weaves a complex canvas of seduction. Everything happens at the level of instincts, they are the basis of the body language of the girl.
For example, a lady asks to light a cigarette for her (although she’ll do it very well herself) and at the same time as if accidentally touches the young man’s hand. Or a door lock suddenly broke down in a stairwell, and she asked a handsome, lonely man, "accidentally" in the vicinity, to fix it. It is possible that after a successful repair it will be offered to drink tea or coffee, as well as continue acquaintance.
And there are a great many such tricks in the arsenal of any girl. A sudden collision at a bus stop (it may turn out later that the meeting was preparing for 2 weeks), a joint walk with the dogs or an intersection at a concert of a popular group.
And if the object of the hunt fell into the zone of action of heavy artillery - its fate is practically resolved.
All means of seduction will be launched: sighs, touches, perfumes, bright lipstick, a new hairstyle and the like. Regarding ingenuity, women are pretty skilled craftsmen in the process of tacking their sympathy. The body language of the girl in love is more frank: she, by all means, needs to attract the attention of the enchanted object. It is easy to determine such a state by its appearance: an elusive gleam of eyes, a mysterious half-smile, smooth movements.
In addition, a girl in love sometimes completely forgets about the advantages given to her by nature and acts almost openly, but, of course, within the framework of her ideas about this. But to solve these “signs” and correctly interpret them is the man’s task.
How to interpret and not make mistakes
In any case, including the art of recognizing the language of non-verbal communication, a slight probability of error is possible. Some overly self-confident young people who do not doubt the power of their charm can erroneously interpret the girl’s actions and in return receive a clear (and even rude) refusal.
The basic rule of communication with a lady is politeness. No rudeness, falsehood, it is better to replace them with sincerity and openness. Suggestions to go to a cafe will be favorably received - a cup of coffee, funny stories and humor in general are welcome, because women perfectly recognize intonations and are able to listen to the interlocutor, to catch what is not said out loud.
Ladies love flowers, compliments, and tokens — even if they have to do small tricks for this. It is important to subtly feel the situation, to observe the behavior of the interlocutor: if she frowns or turned away, then something has gone wrong or you are simply not interested in her. But if a girl smiles, looks directly into her eyes, straightens her curls, touches her lips with her fingers or tongue, know: you are pretty to her. And she really wants to like you.